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5 Hoops That You Must Go Through And Truths To Learn From Them.
These will help you understand why people are the way they are
I’m sure we have all experienced life. The minute you entered high school or simply experiencing something common among adults you began exiting the stage of not feeling young anymore. Switching from activities that once brought you joy as a kid to enjoying little conversations about the stock market, the daily news, work issues, or for some, about how the economy is currently experiencing a downward spiral.
We have all been through the process of leaving the cacoon — a place where we were nurtured and protected, a place where love and protection knew no bounds, and a pace where lions and bears would fight for and protect you.
The hard truth is that while this is good for our parents to protect us. I t can also inadvertently harm us.
It teaches us to be dependent instead of being independent, it teaches us to always expect that someone will be ready and willing to always fight for us.
It teaches us that it is the obligation of others to always respect us and our feelings when truth be told, It's not.
*Sorry to break it to ya*
As humans we are all inherently bias or cruel in one way or another. and after my platonic friendships have gone wrong, I can assure you that this is the truth. But don't get me wrong, there are good people here on this earth, you just have to be good enough to find them — or if your aura is good and welcoming they will find you, oftentimes a blessing in disguise.
While it is important to be self-aware and to have some level of consciousness about who you are and what you stand for. A time will come when sometimes you just have to go through the fire and get burnt to understand what the hell I am talking about or in this case go on the basketball court (life) and play with your team and also your opposing team, but, in order for you to truly understand this analogy continue reading.
Here are your 5 hoops that you will have to go through.
#1 — You will have to get used to being talked about
